I stopped playing the game recently myself a week before Early Fall 2018 Event ended. Left my married ships: Murakumo (my starter), Isuzu and Souryuu. I ask myself how they are doing every so often like this too.
It's been about a year since I've left the game. The mechanics were getting way too overbearing and all the equipment requirements just to get a passing chance at events. Technically I still have kc3 on chrome, but I also do wonder as well. Shoukaku being my (first)wife/secretary.