If shining photons into my eyes in a way to try to get my pattern recognition heuristics to react to you is violating my ocular systems, then... STOP EYERAPING ME AND USE YOUR SONIC SHOCK CANNON (i.e. voice, because only our innate durability prevents harm) TO COMMUNICATE YOU DAFT COWARD.
Besides, you're probably just fishing for validation anyhow and going to laugh in the guy's face if he makes a move. So either you make a move or enjoy going extinct, Japanese girl.
The whole wall slam meme in Japan is just a trap to make the harassment accusation more certain. And the work culture where the wife gets mad if her slave isn't working long enough hours is just code for giving her plenty of time to fuck around. No wonder men aren't taking their shit tests anymore.